It’s the middle of the night and I should be sleeping in my warm bed with my children. The past couple of weeks I’ve had all 4 little ones in the bed with me. Besides my king size bed I have a set of bunk beds in my room. Fiammetta usually sleeps in her own bed on the top bunk but lately she has been coming up with different reasons why she should sleep with us.. Mostly it’s because she’s scared of one thing or another. I’m ok with it.. I love having them all squished in there with me. I think it’s most uncomfortable for her and Sal. I keep me and the baby separated from the rest with a pillow between us. That way the kids won’t roll over and accidentaly squish him. I’ve been having trouble sleeping this past month. I seem to fall asleep great, and some nights I can even stay asleep for the whole night.. (as much as one can while breastfeeding a 4 month old) But then other nights I wake up around 3 or 4 am and my mind is racing, jumping from one thought process to the next. Tonight seems to be one of those nights. I think it may be because I have been falling asleep with the kids around 7 or 8 pm so by 3 or 4 am I’ve already had about 8 hours of sleep!
Messy heap of blankets and babies
This past weekend the husband came down to visit with the kids. He rented a hotel with a pool so the little ones would get to swim. All three of them ended up staying over both nights with him. That was a bit weird and sad. I’m not used to sleeping with out them. That was the only time besides when Valentino was born that Persephone has not slept with me. I missed her tiny little body next to mine. Every night she falls asleep holding my hand or putting her tiny chubby hands on my arms. She’s very snuggly. Last night I had her little hands on my arm and Salvatore fell asleep, next to Persephone, with his arm draped across her to hold my hand. When I do wake up in the middle of the night I love hearing all of their soft breathing. They all have been sleeping pretty calmly. It seems that if there is less of them in the bed that is when the wilder sleeping happens, when I will wake up with Percy upside down or laying sideways, to a little whimper, a sudden crazy scream, and less frequently there have been kicks or punches to the face from a dreaming little one 🙂 The latter three I can definitely live without!
So this Friday Alex came by to pick up the kids and take them out to dinner and they all decided they wanted to stay over night with him at the hotel. So I packed them all up a bag and kissed and hugged my babes goodbye. This is definitely not the way I wanted or imagined my family to be! I knew it would be good for them, and for Alex, but it’s hard for me to let them go. Saturday I was taking Settimio out for his early birthday date. He wanted to go see Deadpool and I wasn’t sure it would still be out in the theatre at his real birthday a month later so we decided to go now when Alex would have the little kiddos.. Settimio and I went out to eat lunch at Anelia’s in La Conner, a Polish restaurant that two of my younger brothers work at; one as the Chef and the other as a waiter and prep cook. We had the brunch, Timio had the Joe breakfast hoagie made from french toast with bacon and home made sausage, I had a super delicious veggie omlete. Ophelia stayed home and we took the baby with us, he had the breastmilk. After brunch before heading in to the movie we met up with Alex and the other kids at the mall. He agreed to watch the baby for the 2 hours so I could watch the movie with Settimio. At Salvatore’s birthday movie date in January we went to see the new star wars movie and I had to stand the whole time so the baby wouldn’t cry. I really did not want a repeat of that so I asked Alex to watch Valentino for me so I could sit this time! The 4 little ones and dad hung out at the mall playground for a couple hours. The movie was pretty sweet. Settimio covered his eyes a couple times during the less kid friendly parts 🙂 There was one sex scene, one strip club scene with boobs, a lot of crude humor and some pretty gruesome killing bits, way more than in the other superhero movies but Settimio is almost 12 so it wasn’t too terrible. Definitely not a movie I would let the younger kids see. Overall we both enjoyed it! After the movie I got Valentino, Salvatore and Settimio and we went home, Alex was taking the girls to the daddy daughter dance that night! This was his and Fiammetta’s 3rd and Persephone’s first time attending. Little Percy has been so excited to go! All year since the last one she’s been talking about going to the Daddy Daughter Dance. They went out for dinner at Anthony’s, a seafood restaurant in town, one of Fiammetta’s favorite places. After the dance they came by and got Sally so he could spend the night with them too.
I knew Sunday would be a long day! My mom and I had plans to go to Ikea while Alex had the kids. I suppose that is one good thing about the little ones being gone for the day, I can get a bit more stuff done! Driving to Ikea from where I live takes about an hour and a half to two hours. My mom drove down my brother’s empty van and I drove down my van with all seats but the the two front and the baby’s removed. Ophelia and Settimio stayed home but we took Little V with us. I was going down to get a couch, a rug, a bookcase and a bed frame. We walked around and checked stuff out..It was crazy packed. I got all the crap I came for and we left. That is the brief version because in reality that journey took all day!! We got home just after dark and I had to unload all that heavy, heavy from the van. Had the older two help while my mom held the baby. It all ended up fitting in my brothers van so mine was empty. No reason to have taken out my seats, but I’m glad I was prepared just in case! Would have totally sucked if I didn’t take out the seats and ended up needing the room. After we got every thing unloaded from the van and carried down the stairs into my house I realized that we grabbed the wrong size bed frame.. wah wah.. So this Saturday I will be making another lovely trip to Ikea to exchange the queen size bed for the proper king that I need. I may buy a few candles that I passed up the first time. When we got home Alex had already dropped the littles off and headed back up to the B’ham. They were all watching t.v. when we arrived. Good way to keep them preoccupied while unloading the loot. I got the rug layed out and the couch put together then headed to bed.. I was exhausted and my feet hurt from walking around all day on the concrete floor.
The couch is in our upstairs living room. I bought two white slipcovers for it. That way when one is dirty, and I know it will be with my children, I can throw it in the wash and put the other one on. I suppose we didn’t need a couch up here but I was tired of sitting on the chairs we have.
My old “couch” wasn’t cuttin’ it.. though I did paint and reupholster those babies right after Persephone was born.
They weren’t too comfortable to sit in while trying to nurse The Newborn. That’s what all the little kids call Valentino, I hope that remains his nickname until he’s an old man!! We still call my little Joey brother Fetus, his nickname from babyhood.
The new and improved version.. don’t mind all those canvases back there.. the gold shelf drying, the new rug nice and soft for fresh crawling baby knees, when that happens..
So now it is almost 5 in the morning.. hopefully I can fall back asleep and not feel too much like crap in the morning when I have to get up in one more hour to get the kids ready for school..
Goodnight world. xoxo